I disagree that the idea of a family residence is from a time long gone
Agree, but Nobody is arguing/describing this. My point was if you are overconsuming (buying too much house), you are delaying ownership and extending payment, such that you never really get clear of the debt. A 30 year mortgage taken on at 35 needs you working at the same job until 65. But careers are no longer so stable, in this regards at all, or so it seems lookinga around the West. It also leaves precious minimum left to pay for college. In the example of 22-52, you had 13 years free to pay/save/recover from your housing expenditure to pay for schooling of your kids. This would require taking out a 15 year mortgage at 35, and that would be smarter. But many people could not then afford the payments....
This is part of the reason people have overbid for housing. The other reasons are social/signalling, etc. But that is as old as forever...think of all the nobles in europe living with massive debts, etc...
Agree, but Nobody is arguing/describing this. My point was if you are overconsuming (buying too much house), you are delaying ownership and extending payment, such that you never really get clear of the debt. A 30 year mortgage taken on at 35 needs you working at the same job until 65. But careers are no longer so stable, in this regards at all, or so it seems lookinga around the West. It also leaves precious minimum left to pay for college. In the example of 22-52, you had 13 years free to pay/save/recover from your housing expenditure to pay for schooling of your kids. This would require taking out a 15 year mortgage at 35, and that would be smarter. But many people could not then afford the payments....
This is part of the reason people have overbid for housing. The other reasons are social/signalling, etc. But that is as old as forever...think of all the nobles in europe living with massive debts, etc...