Quite true, but what your post doesn't do enough to recognize is how much this type of thinking has pervaded our culture, and the damage it is doing. The current generation of up-and-coming workers (25 or so and below) have been taught their entire lives that they were special, they were smart, and interesting, and likeable, and that the only thing that was standing in their way was going out and trying. If they did, they'd prevail...regardless of whether they actually had the talent, not to mention the work ethic to put in the hours of sweat and toil to develop that talent into actual skills and learn to put them to good use. I'm a college student now, and the level of assumption about what the world is going to do for us in the future, not us for it, it for us, and the amount of entitlement is absolutely ridiculous. It would be bad enough if these people thought willpower would be enough. They don't even think they need that.

I worked for years in high school as a salesman at my local bike shop, and for a while as well at a television production company, and I've seen multiple people my age come and go from those jobs because they couldn't learn to alter their perspective on how things should work (to no-experience them) to fit with the way things do work.