Bro, that was a lot of text... I mean, chill. Life is simpler then that. Enjoy your flaws and get along with things as they are, without the need of a "framework" to navigate life
Congrats, yours is the most condescending comment on this site today.
That sounds like you have already got a framework that works for you, which is great for you. Too bad it's a framework that drives you to upbraid innocent strangers on the internet.
Not everyone can take action on the words "just chill." We're all in different places in life—think of it as a state space model. The same vector of force results in different coordinates when applied to different coordinates.