How is Tailscale not P2P? Just because there's a central server for discovery and key exchange does not somehow make it not peer-to-peer.
If the actual communications between two clients is P2P then, by definition, the VPN is P2P. Because that's the actual part people are talking about when they talk about VPNs.
If the actual communications between two clients is P2P then, by definition, the VPN is P2P. Because that's the actual part people are talking about when they talk about VPNs.