I don't have answers, seems to me you're doing everything that should be done.
I do have questions that you need to consider
1. Are you having trouble getting dates? (Is the problem that you're not meeting enough people?)
2. If you're meeting enough people, why are the dates going sour? Are you leaving the men or are the men not interested?
3. If the men are leaving, it's probably a good idea to ask for an honest feedback from some of them.
4. If you're leaving them, it's a good idea to understand what exactly is it that you don't find great about them?
In my opinion. If you have a long checklist, it'll be very difficult to find someone. There are only a few things that you should look for.
1. Is He Kind to me?
2. Do I find him attractive?
3. Does he have any visible mental health issue (Anger, Depression, or Crippling Anxiety)
If these things are Ok, rest everything falls in place.
1. Are you having trouble getting dates? (Is the problem that you're not meeting enough people?) 2. If you're meeting enough people, why are the dates going sour? Are you leaving the men or are the men not interested? 3. If the men are leaving, it's probably a good idea to ask for an honest feedback from some of them. 4. If you're leaving them, it's a good idea to understand what exactly is it that you don't find great about them?
In my opinion. If you have a long checklist, it'll be very difficult to find someone. There are only a few things that you should look for.
1. Is He Kind to me? 2. Do I find him attractive? 3. Does he have any visible mental health issue (Anger, Depression, or Crippling Anxiety)
If these things are Ok, rest everything falls in place.