> ...ramming through a purely partisan agenda via reconciliation and changing the rules when they don’t like the outcome of the game.
You can say this regardless of which party you consider to be the "other" party, except that one party started it a long time ago. Because obstructionism has been the name of the game for so long, these tactics have become necessary in order to get anything done. It's a perfectly rational response to how the rules of the game have changed, IMO.