Rather than just arguing about this, we ought to be looking for the scientific studies on the topic, since this is certainly an area that scientists are interested in.
When we look at achievements gaps between boys and girls in math we can see that it tracks the amount of sexism in a society very neatly - so much so that it seems unlikely that there is any biological difference in math abilities in general[1].
On the other hand there is some pretty good evidence that there are personality traits that systematically differ between men and women in aggregate. Men tend to have higher concientiousness and women higher agreeablness, for instance.
On the other hand
[1] There are some spatial abilities that make up a small fraction of "math" there is some evidence that women are worse at.
When we look at achievements gaps between boys and girls in math we can see that it tracks the amount of sexism in a society very neatly - so much so that it seems unlikely that there is any biological difference in math abilities in general[1].
On the other hand there is some pretty good evidence that there are personality traits that systematically differ between men and women in aggregate. Men tend to have higher concientiousness and women higher agreeablness, for instance.
On the other hand
[1] There are some spatial abilities that make up a small fraction of "math" there is some evidence that women are worse at.